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Quick answers about getting started, privacy, discovery and messaging.
Getting started
Register with an email address, complete your adult profile, and choose your privacy settings before appearing in member discovery.
Create an account →Existing members
Use your email address and password to sign in. Once signed in, your Dashboard provides access to discovery, profile settings, matches and messages.
Sign in →Discovery & search
Search can filter by age, city, education and profession. Only profiles that are complete, active, adult, eligible and opted in to discovery may be shown to another signed-in member.
Go to discovery →Interests & messaging
Send an interest to an eligible member. Private messaging becomes available only after that interest is accepted and both accounts remain eligible.
Review interests →Important notes for this release
Password reset, native Android and iOS applications, paid memberships, public profile-photo approvals and administrative moderation are not yet provided in this code bundle. Do not enter any payment information in a mock-up or share a private photo expecting it to be public. To change your profile visibility, sign in and open Privacy.
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